Friday, March 25, 2011
With my dating experience, I've noticed that it is really hard to find an excellent guy out there. By excellent I mean someone who is a great father, (or capable of being one)goes to work and pays the bills, treats you with love and respect, and is fun and exciting. This is the kind of guy that I would find myself lucky to be dating so I can't help feeling infuriated when I see someone I know leave a guy just like this. What more could anyone ask for? To be fair, I am not in this relationship so I don't know all the ins and outs but I do know for the most part, this couple has been very happy together. They have a beautiful daughter, who they both love very much, a nice home, good jobs, and they are really good friends. At this time though, she has moved out of their place and has yet to give him a reason for leaving their family. He is absolutely devastated, and I am so sad because it pains me to see him hurting so much and I don't know how to help him. I am not good with endings. I guess you could say that I have abandonment issues and I can't understand this situation. Maybe she has just fallen out of love. That happens to some people. I don't understand it but I guess it does happen. But I can't help but feel angry at the selfishness of this whole situation. I know only too well how hard it is to find someone that is worthy of even dating, let only making a life with, so why throw away a good thing? What's the point? Well, I'm done ranting. I just had to get that off my chest.